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New and having trouble with teen. Help!

Hi, I'm Sue, I'm new to the group. I have a very difficult 14 year old daughter. We have been fighting all day. Just need to feel like I'm not completely crazy.

Posted by Susan on 02/08/2010 10:07 PM

 

hi sue... i feel your pain.  I have a 14 yr old step-daughter who is causing lots of drama in our household.  I try to take one day at a time and hopefully dont end up crazy.  I have 2 more little kids and I would rather go back to potty train than to try to figure out a teenager.  I dont understand why they think their life is so tough and miserable.  Was it like that for us when we were teens....Thank goodness for the little ones who just do the funniest things and make you laugh.  Good luch with everything.

posted by kimi on 02/08/2010 11:09 PM

You're not nuts or alone. I have a teenage son, which is COMPLETELY different from raising a girl, but I do remember how I was as a teen. I fought hard with my mother for a few years. I thought I knew it all at times, I wanted to grow up so fast, and I was boy crazy. I didn't always make the wisest choices either. I know I broke my mother's heart many times. But she weathered the storm, and eventually I grew up. Now we have a very good relationship, and I understand so much of what was going on then. That's why there are all the cliches out there about teens and how difficult they are. It's true. Teen angst is a real and palpable thing, and unfrotunately, the people who love them the most take the brunt of it. Sorry you feel crazy. Just keep telling yourself that like the terrible two's and colic...it won't last forever. Do a LOT of counting to ten in your head :)

posted by Kendra on 02/09/2010 02:04 PM

 
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