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for the last year  i have tooken care of my son pretty much by myself..my boyfriend provides some finacial support but we need alot more to get on our feet.. i haven't seen any of my friends in over a year.. i sit in my house by myself all day.. my boyfriend sees his friends almost everyday out of the week.. he's always gone and never brings the baby with him. if i want a break for a few minutes he gets upset.. if i want to go see my friends solo..he refuses to watch him and when i say we need to start taking turns.. i need time to see my friends to actually have a life he flips and says cause he's working he doesn't have to watch him at all..and even if i start working he still doesn't have to.. if i ask for anytime to myself for even a little bit of help he says that he's gunna leave me for good and then i can deal with things... so yeah aren't too good i feel completly isolated...and i have no emotional support...i don't know i just need to talked to someone

Posted by donkey on 02/05/2010 11:03 PM

 

that just seems like abuse to me! sorry you have to go through it! if you care to chat, i'm always here! :)

posted by Chevonne on 02/05/2010 11:56 PM

Omg!!! I'm So sorry your going through that!! Excuse me, but I think he's a huge Jerk.. Why would he not want to watch his own Baby?.. And I'm sure he knows, you would like to get, and you feel isolated, but still doesn't care?.. Sweetie if I was near.. We could always hang out, I went through the isolation thing, because I wasn't used to staying home.. Its not that I didn't want to watch Raven, I just needed to find things to do with him, I hope and pray everything gets better for you, and if you ever need to chat, or have any Questions, dnt hesitate to message me :)
posted by RavensMommy on 02/06/2010 01:38 AM

Try looking on www.meetup.com for a playgroup or mom's group to join. Something that will allow you to get out of the house! We found a great group through them and have made some wonderful friends! Good Luck I hope you find something

posted by Amanda on 02/06/2010 01:10 PM

I know how you feel. My husband is the same way. I'm not working right now. So, the baby is with me all day and all night. I wanted to do some volunteer work and my husband was like f*** that. The day of the event he runs out of the house before I could leave. I think his problem is, he is worried I will cheat. If I have the baby with me I cannot get into anything. That is his personal problem. Don't let your boyfriend get to you. Keep your head up, love yourself, and love your baby the best you can. Sometimes things don't always work out the way you want it to. It doesn't mean you can't still be happy. Happiness is not found in your partner but in yourself. Try to find things you can do with your baby that gets you out the house but can be fun for you to.

posted by Adrainana on 04/05/2010 08:52 PM

 
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