Hi there I was reading some of your guys problems I feel kinda of bad for coming on here mine does not seem as bad but I need ears and advise... My hubby seems to think it is ok that he searches other women on line and chat with them and hide it from me. He thinks sites like married but looking is ok to be on. Me I feel if your married you don't need that.. And he likes to hide it and sneak it like I am totally dumb and clue less then when I confront him on it he always seems to turn the tables and make me feel I am to blame and I am wrong... I just had my first child 2months ago and I feel so unwanted by my hubby... So how should I take things??? I feel like a failure and like I just wanna give up...

Hi Erica:

Congrats on your 1st child while it is great it is a bit of an adjustement to the both of you.  The fact that you told him that it is hurtful that he talks to other women rather then spending time with you and he does not care and the fact the wants to hide facts form you does not sound good.  Try to get him to open up and see if he is willing to share what ever is going on with him.   If that does not work the only you can deicde what the next step is. Good luck with you husband and new child.  Feel free to send me a message.

Deby