Like another mother I have been searching with out much sucess for groups that actually have activety in them.  I am a (divorced) single mother of 2 childern.  My son Dakota is 7 and my daughter Sierra is 5 sierra has a birth defect called Spina Bifida. No I did not do anything to cause it, it just happened.  I am divorced but my so-called marriage was NOT in church and was NOT done by a priest (a jop did it) and my marriage was NOT blessed, (because now ex didnt want that).  He basically went to work one day after our daughters 1st birthday and NEVER came home, didnt hear from him for over 2 months and then when he did call said he wanted a divorce and that he wanted our son and to He** with our daughter (he BLAMES me for her issues saying I MUST of done something)