Ok well to start I am 4 months pregnant. When I got pregnant my husband was working at a really good job and then well he got laid off so we had to move in with my father in law to get back on our feet and do not get me wrong I am extermely greatful that he opened his home to me, my husband and our three year old son. Now the problem: the 18 year old brother in law, he is very selfish and greedy and lets just say nasty. I am on a " meal plan" because I have high sugar and he eats everything we put in the frige now mind you we get him food so he will leave ours alone, it is not like we are buying food for our selfs and leaving everyone one out. Confront him about it and he tells us if it is in there he can eat it!! UGHHHHHHHHHHHH!!! Number two when he goes to the bathroom he never flushes, does not close the door and and leaves pee on the toilet seat ( ewwwwwwww) the bath tub is so gross and I am majorly OCD and this is a problem for me, You can not tell him anything he gets defensive, and I think that pee on the toilet is unsanitary and I have to completely sanitize the bathroom just to use it and it is getting tiring, I mean it is one thing to clean up after my own family and keep the baby in my belly healthy also but when I am living with someone is so uncaring and yells at my son all the time and tries to "parent" my son when I am sitting right there that is where I cross the line, I am getting so depressed over this, this post may seem a little self centered but I have no clue what to do to let him know what he is doing is wrong!! I am the only girl in this house so that in its self is uncomfy!!lol Any advice would be great!! Thank you!!! |
