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Does anyone else experience this with your crystal child? My little one is so determined and firey in spirit, she does not care for her plans being thwarted!  Her tantrums are terrible at this point!  I try to project telepathic images, like how we usually do, and even that doesn't work because she gets so upset.   Has anyone else experienced this issue?  I'm sure the fact that she is still 2, has something to do with it LOL

Posted by Leah on 06/19/2009 10:03 AM

 

Hi Leah.  Boy do I ever understand this.  My crystal is a teenager now but I can tell you that the strong will does not get any less as they get older.  Terrible two's are probably a large part of what you are experiencing but these children seem to have their own agenda and don't want to know about anyone elses.  Over the years I have had to come to terms with that as efforts to change my daughters course were futile.  She does not understand the importance of many of my requests such as making your bed or tidying your room etc. and will do everything in her power to avoid doing such menial things.  It just doesn't rank on the list of things that matter.  But she has a heart of gold which can be over sensitive and vulnerable at times.  She can see the truth of every person she meets.  She has no interest in conforming and can't understand why so many people feel the need to behave like everyone else just to be accepted.  In my experience you can expect a crystal to have moments of total dismay at the world and they need heaps and heaps of hugs and reassurance. So my advice to you is pick your battles and limit them to ones that involve her safety in all forms (physical, spiritual, emotional etc).  The rest is just surface blah blah which just doesn't matter to a crystal.      Good Luck ! I hope that helps :))

posted by Jennifer on 06/21/2009 07:05 AM

haha! Thank you so much for the response, I definitely needed the validation : )  It is like she has her own agenda completely, and anything I want her to do that conflicts with that, is a full out battle! Even at almost 3, I can see, that she just doesn't care to conform to the trivial routine of daily life.  She has her own plan and her own objectives, just like how you stated yours does, and definitely does not care for routine or structure! She doesn't seem to see the point.  I will definitely heed your advice, as far as picking my battles.  This does make sense to me!  I want her to feel empowered, not disempowered because I thwart her plans too much.  Thank you so much again!  Any other words of wisdom you would like to bestow? Since yours is so much older? Again thanks, and light and love to you and yours!

posted by Leah on 06/21/2009 03:13 PM

Crystals are supposed to be mostly even-tempered I thought. The Indigos, esp with a red screen in them are more firey yes?

posted by Erin on 06/23/2009 09:25 AM

Yes I thought that too but my crystal has all the emotions of any other child.  She is just so advanced in spirit that she often can't handle what she is percieving.  I think there is a tendency to expect them to be little angels but they are in fact still children with a limited amount of experience relating in this world (just like all children).  They just have some very advanced and comparatively unique characteristics which make them incongruent with the rest of their world.  This is a challenge for them to handle and process and is why they need exceptional, compassionate and awake parents to protect and guide them.  For example my daughter is incredibely mature in her feelings about other people.  She doesn't judge others and will accept each person for who they are.  However she has to watch others who do judge and criticise and even pick on people who are different and she cannot understand why these other children behave like that.  It upsets her and leaves her feeling very much the outsider.  She does not trust easily and it can take her up to 2 years to let someone close enough to be her friend.  Her ideas about how to deal with problems are superior but they require those around her to understand and trust her judgement.  She knows she is right but they can't go there yet.  She is gradually getting better at this but it has taken great care and attention.  So when they are toddlers, they also 'know' they are right LOL.  But that isn't always in tandem with their physical body or the daily routine which is where many of our conflicts can occur.  The world has to catch up to crystals and they can get titchy when it seems to be taking so long. Does that make sense?

posted by Jennifer on 06/24/2009 05:16 AM

Oh yes, this makes perfect sense to me. Nova is not one to adhere to a regular routine, and at school already they comment on how Nova seems to be, "off in her own little world."  Which I understand is much more than simple defiance or misbehavior.  She is off with the fairies, daydreaming, and creating, and I get it. This is why I believe so many Crystal children are being born to Indigo's and other awake individuals. If her teachers sit me down when she hits grade school, and tries to tell me Nova is not "fitting into the box," or has "ADD," I have the knowledge to tell them to kiss off, and I can really help to thwart that kind of systemic thinking off from distrupting Nova's spiritual path.  I can help guide her and teach her and show her the way.  I already have attuned her to a REIKI level 1, and plan to give her a level 2 when she's ready.( I am a Reiki Master myself )

The Crystals chose us as parents for a reason! How special is that!

I have also realized something quite incredible about my little one here recently!  As most other Crystal children, mine was late talking (verbally)  I believe that this also was a source for some of her frustration, because her "big" ideas were not being translated like how she had wanted.  Well, since she was about one and a half, she has been doing this thing, where she grabs my face, and presses her forehead against mine.  I always thought it was cute and cuddly, and never really thought much of it.  I also am psychic, and keen to picking up images.  One day, after Nova presses her head against mine in a persistent way, like she was trying to get me to understand something, I tried to tune in to her.  Oh yeah, she was sending me images of a nightmare she had had, and her closet (which she thinks is creepy) and sent me an image of her bed.  At this time I was having a terrible time trying to get her to sleep, and a psychic friend had told me that because she is a crystal, she is sensing lower vibrations that scare her.  Well I got Nova's message loud and clear. Now we communicate Via images & feelings telepathically, and although her tantrums are still pretty wild, they have tamed down so much in their quantity!  I feel like we are vibing and getting each other.  I know so much about her thoughts and feelings now, she has even showed me images of the teachers at her school that she likes and doesn't like.  The one she showed me recently, I saw Nova's image of her in my mind's eye, and then saw her for the first time in real person a couple of days after.  I had heard that Crystals sometimes begin their verbal aquisition later, because the premise for their communication is mostly telepathic, and I believe it now!!!!!!!   So when Nova presses her little forehead against mine   (third eye to third eye) I know she has something she wants to show me!

But still, if she wants her way, she wants her way, and that leaves little room for negotiation! 

 

posted by Leah on 07/07/2009 10:36 AM

 
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