At waht point do most kids begin using a spoon or fork with some efficiency. My daughter is 14 months old. She will hold a spoon in one hand and finger feed with the other hand. She will sometimes dip the spoon in the food, but rarely will she bring the spoon up to her mouth. She will often even hand the spoon to me after a while of trying to get food into her mouth. Should I be trying to help her more or just let her feed the way that she is?