i have been separated from my husband since august because he has been cheating on me for the last year with not one but two woman. in december we starting seeing each other again and in march we looked at 3 houses but then he decided that he wanted the other woman.  i'm not taking this very well and it's effect not only me but my girls 2. i hate that i let him back in our lives and then i just wish we could move away and for get him. just very confused and hoping someone can help.

Hi cari, i have recently been thru almost the same thing with my ex its been off and on for over a year and a half when its good its good but when its bad its really bad the hardest part is sayin when enough is enough i cant give the best advise but we can definately talk about it whenever hit me up we can help each other.

thanks for the reply. i hear what u r saying about the good and bad times. today was a prime ex. i found out that he bought a motorcycle bcuz she has one. i want to ring his neck. i told him i was done and the only need to us to talk is about the girls and we need to find a place where we go exchange girls so we don't have to go to each other houses anymore.