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daughter wants to nurse constantly

my 14 month old daughter constantly wants to nurse and she wont sleep unless it is nursing to sleep i really need suggestions and help

Posted by Hillary on 04/20/2009 04:51 PM

 

Hi! I had the same problem with my 3 1/2 year old when she was that age. Honestly what I had to do which was the most difficult thing ever was let her cry it out. At that age they understand alot more to know that it is bedtime. Every night it got better and better then after 3 nights she was sleeping on her own. When she was crying I would go in there every 10 min and pat her back without eye contact and then when she calmed down then walk out again. It was so difficult but when I now look back it was the best thing that I did.Also, is the nursing a comfort thing or is she actually hungry? Hope this helps!

posted by Allison on 05/14/2009 01:00 PM

its definetely a comfort thing she sleeps in our bed i like it but i dont!

posted by Hillary on 05/15/2009 09:37 PM

It maybe time to start weening her. Nursing is great but at that age she is capable of sleeping on her on and without being nursed to sleep. All parents have different suggestions so it is completly up to you as to what to do. I would probably not move her from your bed and ween at the same time but make small steps towrd doing both.

Does she have her own bed/ room? Maybe continue nursing and move to the new room first if you would rather nurse until she is older. In doing this work on the letting her sleep through the night in her own room first. That way if she isn't in the room with you it is not as conveiniant to nurse. Once she is accustom to sleeping on her own with out nursing to fall asleep then you can completely ween from nursing.

Like I said the decision is yours but remember once you start anything consistancy is key. Regardless of which you decide to do you can not give in if she cries or anything because once you break the consistancy it just makes it harder on the both of you.

I wish you all the best. I know it is hard to hear our childen be upset but they can work through most things on their own and alot of times it is harder on us then it is on them.

Best wishes

Karen

posted by on 05/16/2009 02:44 PM

You should get the book No Cry Sleep Solutions.  It has techniques for kids that wake up a lot to nurse, and how to get them to sleep better.  Its really good it helped me a lot.

posted by Sarah on 05/18/2009 10:57 AM

 
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