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Hi my name is Tanya.  I am a SAHM with 2 boys under 3.  RC is 2 and a half and Devin is 7 months.  RC has not been diagnosed with any kind of speech delay but I feel he is far behind where he should be.  No one seems concerened and just tells me since he is a boy he's just going to talk later.  But in my heart I feel he might be delayed.  Anyway.... I just wanted to tlak to other moms who might have the same concerns.

Posted by Tanya on 04/14/2009 11:53 PM

 

GO WITH YOUR HEART...

Hi Tanya! I am a working mom, married (11 yrs) and raising two girls: Naomi (4 yrs) and Elise (12 months). I also had the same EXACT issue with Naomi when she was 2 yrs old. My family and friends also noticed and advised "she'll grow out of it" and "some kids start later than others". Still concerned I went to my pediatrician (because that's what you're supposed to do) and was advised to wait until after she's 3. The doctor suggested that the school distrcit will have her evaluated when she enter kindergarten anyway. HUH?!? 

I was not comfortable with waiting so I went to get her hearing checked. She passed - it was not a hearing issue. By the time she was 3 we still couldn't understand her. I did my own homework and found the American Speech Language Hearing Association (ASHA):

 http://www.asha.org/public/speech/disorders/ChildSandL.htm

It answered all of my questions and was educational. Don't wait if you suspect there is a problem - it's better to know for sure now, than to wait and it be too late. I went to a private specialist and got her evaluated and received a report. One of the technician advised (after the fact) that children entering into kindergarten (4 yrs old) can have this same evaluation through the school district FREE!! In your case, based on RC's age, if you decide to go private I suggest you check to see if your insurance will cover it.   

Anyway, I passed this report on to our school district (preparing her for kindergarten) and they did additional tests. Based on their results, she qualifies for speech therapy through our school district (which is FREE). Naomi it turns out has more of a language disability than it is speech (check out the ASHA website for information) . The school district psychologist told me that Naomi definitely needs speech therapy and that with some work and patience she will improve. My husband and I remain hopeful. We only want her to get the most that life has to offer

Good luck to you,

Ayo

posted by Ayo on 04/25/2009 09:34 PM

Hi Tanya. First, I apologize for not responding to you sooner. I've been in the process of moving and haven't even opened a computer in quite a while. Normally, I check quite often...and so do other members of the group, come to think of it Wink

I'd check with the schools right away. Through the early on/ early intervention/ child first (called different things, depending on your area) program, schools are required to provide speech evaluations and speech therapy (as well as some other services) free to children, from birth on. If you call your schools special education department, tell them your concerns and they will let ya know who ya need to talk to and what ya need to do. Some schools are easier to deal with than others. I know they don't provide services if there are **minor problems, but for major delays they do. They will be able to tell you their criteria. I know all school districts are different, but my experience has been very difficult and long through the schools. If you have insurance that would cover an evaluation I would start out by scheduling a private evaluation, as well as contacting the schools and getting on the list there. The private evaluation will probably be much quicker...our school had 30 school days from the time I requested the evaluation until they had to complete it...they used all their days. They have an additional number of school days to tell you if the child is eligible and even more school days until they have to start providing services...and summer is coming up. I never realized how many days kids don't go to school until I was counting out 30 school days. Possibly they would push it to get it done this school year, but if not, the fall is a long way away.

I was pretty much exactly where you are just over a year ago...if you look through old postings I think there is one titled "IEP info" or something like that, where, at one point, I completely went off. This has been a great place where I have received help, support, a sounding board, and made friends that understand my concerns, frustrations, and the achievements we make. I agree with Ayo...don't wait. If you are concerned, get an eval done. My oldest was diagnosed with Dyspraxia, and not until he was 3...I really didn't know there was a problem for a while and kept thinking the toddler stage with talking just lasted a really long time. I kept hearing "he's a boy and will talk later" and all that too. Finally, we had the eval done and realized we had quite a bit of therapy in our future...but, at least then we were able to DO something.

Let us know what you deside to do, and how things are going. Many of us have been exactly where you are, so we are here for you with ideas based on our own experiences. If there is anything I can do to help, let me know...and good luck!

posted by Rhonda on 04/29/2009 04:38 PM

Hi Tanya!  Welcome!

I usually check in more often too, but did not receive an email about new postings.. I am so sorry!

If you feel there is a problem, start with the eval from the school district, or private pay if you can afford it.  I went against my doc saying "he is just a little late, he'll catch up" (he was 30 mos) and went with private that my insurance paid for.  Jake had therapy for 6 mos, then the insurance stopped paying.  We've actually been doing better since then on our own! He is 3 ys 5 mos now.

I researched, joined a few other groups that give tips and techniques and learned how to do a lot of the therapy myself!  I am now a group owner at CafeMom and share my tips, activities and progress!

We have a resources list here, and the best site I found for info and techniques is the teachmetotalk.com site.  The DVDs they sell are fabulous! They teach YOU how to be an SLP! You can use the DVDs until you get through the eval process, and if he qualifies for therapy, it is a great supplement. If he doesn't qualify, you still have the tools to make sure he gains improvement!

Best of luck, and keep us posted!

posted by Annette+4 on 05/17/2009 06:38 PM

 
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