I gave my daughter a doll a few months before the baby came, and we started taking care of the doll. Right from the day we brought him home, she'd help by getting his diapers, getting his pacifier for he when he was crying, taking him toys. Where they are so young, they don't seem to get jealous which made it easy. They have such a close bond now, they sometimes I swear they don't even need me! After a short time, you won't even notice that two was more work than one. It honestly seems easier. They amuse each other. The hard part for me was the few months before Noah was born. I was sooo big and wanted so much to play with my daughter and hold her and get as much one on one time in with her, but it was too hard. I couldn't carry her, or hold her on my lap. I felt guilty that I could give her the attention that I felt that she needed.
Yes, NOPF is the building with the fence. We're scattered in a bunch of different places through out the states. It's kind of a cool posting to have. |