My 20 yr old who has been living with his 17 yr old gf and their family ,just called me and told me that I am going to be a gramma.Well Im happy in 1 sense ,but extremely sad in another.Hes 20 and very irresponsible.Hes lived with 7 different friends in the last 2 yrs.He wont go and get a job.He refuses to grow up.Hes going to school still.Im afraid that he got her preg; so that the dad wouldnt kick him out.While he was telling me she was preggo ;I heard her in the background saying, that they were growing apart ;so she thought a baby would bring them closer!!!!!!
I called hubby and told him and he went off!He tells me that I am never going to have the baby over here, that he refuses to raise it,and I better not go and see them and it.I said OMG ,WE CAN BE LIKE YOUR PARENTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!YAY!!!!!Raise em and then ignore you and their grandkids!!!!!He of course didnt like to hear me say the truth, and I told him ;Ill have that baby over and go and see it and if he didnt like it he can go to hell!He of course bitched for a few more minutes of which I ignored.Her mother is all good with it and the dad of course is livid.I am just going to pray for them and hope that they have a healthy baby and can raise it right and if not do the right thing and give it to her parents, if they cant.Hopefully ,this will make him grow up.

Yall remember me several months ago constantly griping that he refused to grow up.Well this is how he has chosen to live.