Tessa, I think you're going to have to bite the bullet and sleep train for the daytime. It will take you a bit longer since he's older, but it will be SO worth it. If you can, you can try getting black-out shades or curtains for his windows and maybe even a white noise machine (or a radio set on static), then do a similar routine to the bedtime routine and make him learn it. If he cries for an hour and never takes a nap, that can't last for very many days before he's too exhausted to make the effort, so I'd say give that a try and see how it goes. But my sympathies to you. It won't be very fun.
I do recommend you get him out of the bouncer pretty soon, though, I used to keep my kids in the bouncer when I was showering and one day I saw my daughter almost flip hers over. You definitely don't want that to happen.
Good luck to you!
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