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I hope this group would be active in addressing the different issues but above all supporting of the members who are at the moment going through this difficult time.
Because the focus on raisingthem are the kids, my question is how are you children handling the divorce? Do they get support? |
| Posted by Vero on 02/18/2007 09:40 PM
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well, my divorce was final in December and its hard to really explain it to my kids because they are so young... At 2 and 4, there isn't a whole lot that they understand...
Really the hardest part for me is sharing my kids... I don't like letting them go to his house every other weekend, because I don't feel like he deserves it! Ughh!!!
I can't wait to hear what other people have to say!
Great Idea for a group! |
| posted by Kristen on 02/20/2007 12:23 AM
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| It's easy to fall into that trap. For years I felt that way about my first wife. You soon come to the realization that it's not about how you feel, but rather how the kids feel. My first wife and I get along great now, and it shows through our daughter. It can sometimes be a bitter pill to swallow, but it definately benefits the kids. After all, they just want mommy and daddy. |
| posted by Sean on 02/23/2007 08:56 AM
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Hi everyone. I am just now going through my divorce. We have court on the 1st. I haveno problem sharing my son with my ex. He's a good father and loves his son very much. My issue is his current situation and seeing him with our son.
My ex made a bunch of bad mistakes that effect me and my son. He now has 2 kids with 2 different women. He's with the other woman right now and she also has another kid from another relationship. Everytime I take my son to his dad the same thoughts go through my mind. I can't help but feel like she ripped my family a part and I know its not her I should be upset with.
Our son is one 15 months and his dad was an over the road truck driver so he is somewhat used to not seeing his dad everyday. Hopefully my ex will have his own place soon and that will help some of my feelings. It just hurts to see him being so good with our son and I'm not a part of that like I thought i would be. |
| posted by Velony on 07/21/2007 07:07 PM
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| Get over him.Hes not worth it.Go out and meet new ppl w groups or churches.He will probably do the same thing to her.Dont ever let him see that he affects you.Be as nice as pie to his newest fling.He'll wonder whats up lol. |
| posted by Lexi on 01/08/2008 08:14 PM
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