My name is lauren Im a mother of 4 i wanted twins so bad i had my first 2 children 14 months apart when they were 2 and 3 i found out i was having twins! im loving every moment of it even though im still nursing and never sleep. they are girls my dr. said they're identical but i dress them different and have them do things with eachother and away from eachother i just hope im doing the right thing  

Sounds like you are doing everything right. I'm a firm believer that twins need to be recognized as individuals (I don't even refer to my children as "the twins," but that's my choice). I also believe they need to spend time with each other to develop their special bond. Congrats and best of luck to you!