Lol... Melissa, if i were you... i think the internet would "mysteriously" stop working!! :) Sometimes I get the "wind down from work" excuse too... but then I gently remind him that there is no "wind down" for stay at home mommies! I lucked out with my guy, he genuinely tries to help a lot... Maybe you guys could switch weekend days sleeping in.. if he stays up late & doesn't get up saturday morning, you should get to sleep in sunday! 

I agree w/ Katie. Trade off. I know first hand that being a SAHM is a lot more work than people think, but I also know what its like to work a F/T job, so understand if hubby is tired. I try & run my home on a schedule & maybe this can work for you ladies.  How about telling hubby u completely understand he's tired & agree he needs time to wind down/relax a little when he comes home (even thought I KNOW u just want to throw the kids at him the minute he walks in the door - been there). But just how much time does he need? 15 minutes? Half an Hour? Then maybe u can get that same amount of time, too. Video games, movies, fixing a truck are all luxeries now & so is the time they require.  Maybe u can explain to hubby these are luxeries u decided to give up or at least reduce when u decided to have children. You know, just like you decided to give up the luxery of sleep!