I'm so sorry to hear that. I know how much that sucks. Last year my boyfriend had a gig on Valentine's Day...a local one, but had one. And I had to be at my sister's rehersal dinner for her wedding. It wasn't a good situation It was a big show for them and he wanted me there and I couldn't be. This year they have chosen to take that weekend off since their keyboard player will be celebrating his first Valentine's day with his wife, and also their drummer plays for another band occasionally who will be on tour. My boyfriend and I will be spending our first Valentine's day together and we are more than extatic about it. Just try to remember it is just a day though, like any other day. Yes, it's Valentine's day, but you guys should set a time to celebrate it before or after that day. Go out to dinner, do something romantic. Still do it, even if it's not on THAT day. Good luck! Rowan