im learning now it is very important in order to feel close,and enjoy each other. with a busy life its easy to feel like your just going through the motions,however we never will know or be able to get the amount of couple time needed im sure,i know we dont.but we have talked about it a million times and say we are going to take the time out for it,but rarely follow through.
It is very important. We decided that when our first one was born we would try and do something atleast twice a month maybe even once a week, we had both our parents close and friends who would watcher her. But when our daughter was 3 months old we started moving around so we have gone on about 6-8 "dates" in the last 3yrs. And I can tell when we need time with out the girls.
He is worthless anyways. Ever since, we had the baby things have changed for the worst. I don't even try anymore, what for? it's not like i'm looking foward to friday night to go out dancing like we used to do before the baby.So i really don't care!