When I was younger I wanted to have a big family.Back home my Mom have househelp with us 8 kids, but that's a luxury we can't have here so 2 kids is plenty enough for us. We want to provide well for our kids and with our present economy that is kind of a challenge.
I am fine with only having my beautiful daughter but my husband wants to try for a boy. I told him it doesn't work that way but he still wants to anyway. I told him he should have it then, lol. We may end up with another (it is probably pretty likely) but I would not be disappointed if we didn't.
I am happy with my two. I have a boy and a girl and that is perfect. We would have a hard time affording two plus I belive that every child should have their own room and if we had more they would have to share rooms. We also want them to go to colllege and I doubt that we could afford to put more than two through. My mom had 7 children and 6 step children there is constant chaos and fighting between them I was never involved in that chaos and drama because I was raised a only child by my fathers parents so I get along with all of them.