I would love it if my EX would keep the kids for a weekend. I never get time to myself. He will keep them during the day while I have to work on the weekend, but I pick them up right after. . so Its not like im able to do anything. I dont go out with friends or even really get to go to the store without them.
It would be nice not to have to worry about loading and unloading children or deal with dressing them and feeding them just for 2 days a month... If I could just have a little free time.. it would be a dream.
My husband is so perfect it is awesome he always comes home does all the chores I couldn't get done during the day, Gives the kids baths most of the days puts our son and daughter to bed gets up with them at night what more could I ask for. I did pick the flowers because I love to make floral arangements.
I want him to think about me. If he is at the store and sees something for me (i.e. buy me a flower, pick a flower). Offers to watch our daughter so i can have time to myself. Just a thought and he follows through with it and it does not necessarily involve him receiving something in return.