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| well my husband is doing it to me.so i know how it feels to be cheated on.he says hes not but ive seen his cell phone calls.but i called every number and told them women he is married and to back off.so we have not had anymore conflicts. |
| posted by angie on 10/19/2008 03:29 PM |
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| Wow, I'm sorry that is going on. My husband is cheating to. He has something going on, online. I can get close enough behind him to read his conversations he logs off real fast. Again I'm sorry it does not feel good at all. It makes you feel distrust for them. |
| posted by Reanna on 10/19/2008 05:15 PM |
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| I created this poll b/c I saw another poll asking if we have ever cheated on our spouses. When I was with my ex, I wasnt emotionally fulfilled, and I have friends that I talk to but most of them Ive known for a while, and nothing has ever happened between us. But during our relationship my boyfriend started called chatlines and talking to women on there, and possibly meeting them. That was unacceptable to me. |
| posted by Amy on 10/20/2008 08:30 AM |
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| Well I met my hubby when I was dating a guy and he was dating a girl(she lived with him) but neither of us was happy with who we were with and we have been together for 8years and married for 6. I think cheating while dating is one thing but cheating while married is a totally different thing. Neither of us has ever cheated since and never will...we make sure things are new and exciting so neither of us get bored....its not easy with a kid but we've been making it work. BUT if he ever does cheat on me then his ass is out the door, kid or not...and He'd do the same if I cheated on him. |
| posted by Amers on 10/20/2008 12:11 PM |
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| I just went through a similar experience with the computer thing, and so I just downloaded a camera into my pc, and it took pics of everything anyone did on the computer, and as soon as I had enough information, I blasted him with it one day, and he doesn't use our pc for anything like that anymore. I still have some reservations, but they are becoming more and more less, as he keeps proving to me over and over that he loves only me, and wants to hang on to this marriage.....The camera costs about $60.00, and was worth every penny. Now I use the camera to keep an eye on my teens using the computer, and have actually caught things they are doing wrong on it......Computers are great if they are used for the right reasons. But yes, I do think emotional cheating is the same as cheating. |
| posted by Sandy on 10/20/2008 07:47 PM |
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| The Bible says that if you lust after an other in your heart you have already committed adultery |
| posted by D on 11/11/2008 07:39 PM |
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THAT'S SILLY TO ME. It's human nature to lust...now if you act on that lust, you're in the wrong. I think people are hot all the time - I've flirted with people and daydreamed of sex with other people as well. I love my hubby and he's my #1, but what fun is it if you can't even float off to fantasy land? I'm anti the whole on-line relationship thing...that's way over the line, but thinking about it is no biggie....you're fooling yourselves if you think your spouse hasn't "thought" about other women.
I have lust in my heart for Brad Pitt...who doesn't? ;) |
| posted by on 11/14/2008 03:43 PM |
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| I think its the same. If you are emotionally involed with someone then you are taking feelings and time away from your spouse... maybe that could be the source of it all. Put a lil more effort & time to your spouse and maybe you wouldnt have to "cheat". |
| posted by HOLLY on 03/15/2009 12:35 AM |
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| i agree with lauren, its natural to think, but that is different than emotionally and outwardly being involved with someone else. We as humans are not meant to be monogomous like that and it is healthy in a marriage or relationship to fantasize and think otherwise you are more likely to cheat from holding it in and feeling trapped! |
| posted by ashley on 03/31/2009 10:56 AM |
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