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My brother is actually going through this very thing. We are encouraging him to talk through it with a councelor since his wife drove him to such extremes in their marriage. However, I voted to get a divorce on the poll, but I say only if you both aren't at fault because vows are sacred. |
posted by Amanda on 09/30/2008 06:01 PM |
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Okay,
If you are in a situation where your husband has another woman that knows about you and you know about the situation i am guessing that you and your husband really need to talk? Only you and him can know what to do, only you and him know what has been going on in your relationship? What is the history, is he just selfish, or does he have some sort of reason? Do you love him, does he love you , do you want to work it out, or don't you, there are WAY to many possibilities in a situation like this to get a cut and dry answer from anyone. I'd really suggest that if you want to work at it and so does he go to counseling. |
posted by Crystal on 10/17/2008 06:06 PM |
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im going through it right now and it doesnt feel to good.i wont leave him i love him to much to let a homewreckin woman take him from me. |
posted by angie on 10/19/2008 03:59 PM |
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It's too hard to know the details of anyone's relationship and situation, I think there would be lots of different paths to follow.
Some people can repair a marriage that has suffered infidelity. Others can never regain that trust.
Depending on a multitude of factors, any of the above options might be the best course of action. |
posted by Bethany on 10/21/2008 06:04 PM |
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I went through this and I do not feel it can be repaired. I think you will think is he cheating on me still questioning his every whim and wondering whats going on..the cheating guy in my life is my ex and hindsight ladies is amazing. Being out of it now I KNOW it was best for me to go. I am now in a MUCH better situation with a better guy.
My ex cheated on me while I was preggo too! |
posted by Chrissy on 10/21/2008 07:30 PM |
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If a man cheats he is clearly in the wrong but a woman who knows that he is married and continues a relationship anyway is not a good person. Men don't understand a woman's feelings 100% of the time but another woman should. A woman should realize better than the husband just how much it would hurt the other woman. I dated a few of guys who were married but when I found out that they were married or even suspected they were married I dumped them verry fast. I would never want to hurt another woman like that. If my husband cheated my heart would be broken, I don't think that I would be able to get over it, I am sure that I would always be wondering about everything he says or does. |
posted by Heather on 01/02/2009 02:08 PM |
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