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| First off, I'm so sorry. I'm not sure if your question was meant to include miscarriages or born children (heaven forbid), but I answered yes because I miscarried my first pregnancy, It was one of the hardest things I've ever been through, eventhough I was only 7 weeks pregnant. If one more person told me how "common" it was, I was going to freak out. We now have a beautiful boy who we are so thankful for, but I'll never forget how hard it was losing that first pregnancy. |
| posted by on 04/20/2008 10:32 PM |
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| I was two months when I miscarried my first one, it was very hard on me and my husband. We now have a beautyful one year old girl. I think the hardest part was finding out that friends around us how weren't trying yet were finding out they were have a baby. |
| posted by Anne on 04/21/2008 10:32 AM |
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| yes. i miscarried my second pregnancy. 6 months after that i found out i was pregnant with twins, who are now 5 years old. and it was very hard. all these questions surfaced that challenged my beliefs. but, for some reason, harder than the loss of my pregnancy, about 2 years later one of the 18 month olds that i taught in sunday school, got ill rather quickly and died. i still have issues with that, and it was lie 3 years ago. she was an angel. again, lots of questions. but I trust God, in His wisdom, that He knows why these things happen. doesn't change how hard it is, but it puts me at peace, because I trust in God's purposes. I know He is good. My questions will just remain until I see them one day. but there is still a scar. you never forget them. |
| posted by mmm on 04/21/2008 03:45 PM |
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| I was thinking this could be viewed as losing a child at the mall or a death |
| posted by vanessa on 04/23/2008 06:05 PM |
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| Lauren, I have to agree with you about people saying how common it is. When I miscarried my second pregnancy at 2 1/2 months I asked the ER doc what was next and he was like nothing, we can't save the fetus, I said I knew that but I needed to know what was next. It is an everyday occurance for the doctors but NOT for me. The same can be said with those around me, they were like ok it happens so much and maybe it is for the best but when you are going through that you do not want to hear it. |
| posted by Kyleen on 04/28/2008 08:55 PM |
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| I have had 4 MC and a newborn die when he was 11 days old. I think about them every day. |
| posted by Melissa on 05/12/2008 02:46 PM |
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No, God Bless your heart! One of mt best girlfriends lost a daughter and I know how hard that is.
I hope you have a HUGE family!!! |
| posted by Lesa on 08/15/2008 04:50 PM |
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| I have not lost a child but my heart goes out to any one who has. You all must so strong to endure that . God bless |
| posted by sarah on 08/24/2008 12:45 AM |
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I have not lost a child, but like others posting here, I did miscarry my first pregnancy.
It has made me with both of my viable pregnancies, be very worried until confirmation of heartbeat, ultrasound, etc. Of course, the worry never really ends, does it.
I can not imagine it, and my heart aches for any who have lost a child. |
| posted by Bethany on 10/25/2008 06:26 PM |
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| I have had a miscarriage, but I wasn't think of that. I have close family who lost a premie 3 weeks after birth. She was born at 25 weeks. Another sister in law lost her daughter 3 months after birth to a genetic disorder called trisomy 13. |
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