My duaghter was a surprise but we had talked about trying when my husband got home but decided I should get a job for a while to help pay of some bills - I was working about three weeks when we found out.
Neither was planned. Our daughter was first, when we had her we fell in love with her and were talking about trying for another when she would be a year old, well God must have been listening to us because I got pregnant when she was 3 mo old. it was a shock but it was a pleasant supprise and I consider it a blessing because we had two in no time at all and so many people try so hard or can't.