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| I would approach the spouse and let them know that I saw something, and encourage them to fess up. |
| posted by Susan on 03/04/2008 11:48 AM |
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| i would tell them i saw too, but if they did not oh yes just think if that friend was in that same spot i would want someone to tell me |
| posted by jamie on 06/04/2008 06:40 PM |
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| a friend should tell because once they see some thing it will weigh heavy one there minds till they say somethig . and a good friend is always honest even if it may hurt !!! |
| posted by on 10/14/2008 12:33 AM |
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| My true "friends" would tell me so yes I would but only in cases that I knew for a fact something was going on cause if you're not sure you can make a bigger mess and look like your trying to cause problems. |
| posted by Deborah on 11/01/2008 01:23 PM |
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| I have been in this spot where I told the "FRIEND" what I seen and I lost the "FRIEND" (of many years). BUT now she and him a divorced and he is with the "OTHER" women. So I do not know if I would do this again unless I had proof to show him/her of what I knew. |
| posted by Diana on 01/01/2009 04:33 PM |
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| yes as long as I was 100% sure |
| posted by Jessie on 01/10/2009 09:18 AM |
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| I am in this exact position rite now. I know for 100 percent and i am keeping my mouth shut. I refuse to put myself in the middle of someones business. Even if that means that they wouldnt tell me, what goes around comes around and the cheater will get found out in the end. Its not my job to tell. I have bigger things to worry about than some one elses marriage. I dont like being involved in drama and it never is pretty. |
| posted by Sarah on 01/10/2009 10:21 PM |
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Upon pondering this question I have come to the conclusion that if someone was cheating on me I would want someone to clue me in. With todays diseases and what have you I would rather know especially if my health were at risk. See cheaters don't realize what they do. They at that moment are thinking O.o I can have my cake and eat it, too. But not only does the cheater hurt theirselves but their spouse, children, health, mental well being, emotional well being, the other person they are cheating with, and the list goes on from there. They do not understand fully what their action has for reactions from others. So If a friend was in that situation I would definately let them know what I have seen and allow them to make up their own mind upon what to do further about said situation. And while they are making up their mind of course be there for them emotionally, mentally, physically, and metaphysically.
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| posted by Jennifer on 02/01/2009 05:28 AM |
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| After being cheated on and nobody said a word to me I would definatly say something. Every time I am around the people who knew and said nothing I have uncontrolable urges to punch them. lol. I also feel very stupid for not realizing sooner. |
| posted by on 03/14/2009 12:20 AM |
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| Been there done that. The friend didn't talk to me for 2 years, but I still think it was worth telling her. |
| posted by Sheila on 08/20/2009 09:19 PM |
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First I would encourage the spouse to fess up. If they couldn't do that then yes. I would let my friend know.
Although I do believe in staying out of Adult business. Say my friend and husband are fighting and they ask me what I think. I would say, "it sounds like you two have something to work out. I'll come back on a better day."
But if some one is cheating they have the rite to know about it. If your a real friend you would tell them because there is a chance they could get extremely sick and catch an std.
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| posted by Alejandra on 11/04/2009 10:18 PM |
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| My commitment is to my friend and if I knew something and didnt tell I would be comprimising my values even if they got mad at me and didn't talk to me. I think my firends would get very mad if I didnt tell and I dont know if I could keep them as a friend if they knew and didn't tell me. Not only has your husband cheated on you but I would feel as though my friend also cheated me. |
| posted by Terri on 02/02/2010 03:21 PM |
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| Yes I would tell my friend.. I would want to know if my husband were cheating on me.. and friends are suppose to look out for each other. |
| posted by Kristi on 04/10/2010 01:28 AM |
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| I would confront the spouse and clarify what I saw. If I felt that it was a legit situation, I would clue my friend in, but only after confronting the spouse. These situations can get sticky and ruin friendships, especially if your friend is too in love with her man to consider him cheating. |
| posted by Angela on 06/09/2010 04:03 PM |
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| It is not a good idea to breack the news to my friend and my friend should find out for herself. Beside, its not appropriate to get between a couple. In some cases your friend might not believe you and might think that you want to destroy her mariage and will stay away from you. Mariage is for the best and worse, so no matter what mistake a couple make, problems should be solved. |
| posted by alice on 01/29/2012 11:28 PM |
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