I got my fiance two passes to a ski run that he really likes. I encouraged him to go for the day with his friend. And after his day of fun, i reminded him that "now its my turn, i get a day". Then plan your day, let him know in plenty of time, so there are no excuses about why he can't. and go girl! A whole day with just him and the baby will teach him more than anything you could say.
