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17 month old still not talking.. Speech Therapy???

My 17 month, who will be 1 1/2 in 2 weeks, says about 4 words. He says momma, dadda, nanna, and pap-pap. He understands when we ask him to get something, he waves bye-bye, gives hugs and kisses.... and points to things, but no words come out. He grunts, moans and points. At his 15 month check-up, the doctor told us he should be speaking more. She said for us to consider speech therapy classes. To me, this seems a little extreme... IS IT? We color and draw letters, we read to him all the time, we go for walks and point things out. will he be ready on his own or should I consider taking him to speech classes? He is my first son and I am just worried that it might push him into not wanting to talk on his own. He is very smart on a lot of other things. He has his 18 month check-up in 2 weeks and I know it will be a topic the doctor will talk about. I would love to hear comments! Thanks so much!!

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Written by EthansMommy
Posted on 01/14/2010
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Answers:
I am a speech therapist......and thought I would chime in. It sounds like Ethan is doing well. So many children have a language burst around 18 months old. That said, speech therapy is not a bad idea. In many states (I live in TN) speech services are free through state funds. They come to your house. Speech therapy is not about trying to push a child to talk. It is about teaching ways to communicate what they want. Many children make huge gains with speech therapy and are much less frustrated
hope this helps
posted by sarah on 01/15/2010
Thanks for your comment! I am sure, like I said, this will be a topic Ethans doctor will touch on, so I will take your comment into consideration. I was just wondering and like you said about 18 months being a speech burst, and I have seen that in a few of my friends kids. I just didnt want to push him into anything. But I guess it wouldnt hurt. Thanks again!
posted by EthansMommy on 01/15/2010
I agree with the previous post regarding the fact that speech therapy will not hurt, but for your own piece of mind, I have a lot of experience working with children, and I have seen many other children who were saying about the same number of words that your son is saying at this age. All children are different, and they will hit their developmental miles at their own pace. I think what a speech therapist can also do is to observe the way you communicate with your son, and give you a few pointers on how to make your communication even more effective. I know you will worry no matter what (I understand, since I am a mom of a toddler, too), but I think it will be good for you to get that reassurance from the professional after his or her assessment. (I have seen it especially often with bi-lingual kids, just in case your son is learning 2 languages at the same time.)
posted by Olga on 01/16/2010
My little brother (a 3yo) has Downs and is nonverbal (for now). He had so much fun when his speech therapist came for home visits! I realize your son is no where near as delayed as my brother, but I can't imagine the therapy being a negative. In fact, I think he would love it and look foward to the visits too. These therapists are VERY good at making learning fun.
posted by Ashley on 02/08/2010
I had to take my son to speech therapy because he was not talking...just grunting and such. I think that it got him out of his normal everyday setting and with someone new who didnt know what every grunt and moan ment. He only had to go for a few months and now he wont stop talking. Its really up to you but I would recomend it for sure. If nothing else it would just get him started down the right path.
posted by Jaclyn on 03/25/2010
Thanks for the comments! He is 20 months now, and he says about 9-12 words now, so we are making progress. And I understand him clearly as to what he is saying. We have been reading ALOT more to him and I seriously think it is helping him. He points to pictures in his books and everything now. Im happy with how far he has come in 2 months.
posted by EthansMommy on 04/07/2010
  
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