After sixteen years and eight years of marriage as well as two children, my husband was having an affair. He's been so forthcoming (after he was busted!), loving and supportive - as well as honest, that I dont even have the energy to be mad. I'm just SOO SOO sad. It has been almost three weeks and I just can't seem to pull mysefl together for very long. I'm still kind of a mess. I cry all of the time. I'm just SO sad.