I have a dear friend recently married, she is in her mid-30 so we start talking kids!
She frankly said that she is not sure she wants to be a mother. She is a great person and very attentive to kids but she knows also that there are other things that can fill her life.
I tried all my best argument to explain how motherhood is a unique experience and one you might not want to miss.
In another way it is clearly hard work so if someone does not feel ready what do you say even if the biological clock is ticking so she does not have the luxury of waiting too long.
Vero