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| My stepdaughter has succeded and ruining my marriage |
| The problem is with my stepdaughter. She is rude, mean, and thinks only of herself. She takes fits like a children if things don't go her way. Just recently she verbally attacked me and my husband did not defend or stand up for me. My stepdaughter also lives out of town. One day I just couldn't take my stepdaughter actions and told her to get out. My husband was got very angry with me and wouldnt talk with me at all. That night I left the house as to not cause anymore issues and went to my daughters. As I was leaving my stepdaughter had a big grin on her face. I stayed away long enough until she went back home. I then went back home and tried to talk with my husband about what had happened and what she said, but he got defense about his daughter and said it is always his kid that does something wrong. He didn't want to talk about it anymore and said that is all I wanted to talk about. I tried to explain that we should talk about this, as problems will go away for awhile but they will come back and be harder to handle. But he didn't like that answer and said the only way it is going to work is for me to stay in one room and him in another, Me the fool that I am did this for almost 2 months. I went to him a week after and he said it was great, he no longer has upset stomach. He continued these 2 months not to talk or even look at me. He would leave the house without saying anything, He say me crying so many times and did not comfort me in anyway. I was in the process of returning back to work but because of this my doctor refused to let me go back. So I sat there wondering what to do. I still wasn't 100% from recovering from the cancer but I now had to deal with this. So I continued seeing my social worker from the Cancer Clinic. I then went to a lawyer to find out my rights, Our 1 year anniversary came and went without any acknowledgement. I was so hurt and upset but no matter how many times I tried to talk with him he would shut me down. So I decided to look for a apt. I told him I was leaving and he got mad at me. I left and he took one of three vehicles we have that I had took with me. So I was stranded with no way to get to my doctor's appointment. My lawyer then served him with a alimony letter and then things got worse. And he talks to his daughter like nothing as happened and she told him that I owe her an apology and that she has nothing to be sorry about. So here I am in my apt and I cry every day and try to move on but I cant. I still need to either talk with him on facebook or texting, Help Me I don't know how to stop this, I am making myself sick and my doctor now wants me to see a doctor to talk with about this, But I am not sure I want him back because his daughter will always be there and he has told me he would not stand by me. |
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