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| Can you help a single mom feeling sad and worried? |
| i am about to be a mother in 2 weeks , right now i feel i am very stressed and sad because of my situation as single mother .. i really dont want to feel the same when the baby comes i want to show my baby postive me and the strong me and tough up for my baby .... i dont know how to help myself to be strong for my baby because my baby he gona have only me in his life because the father he is not stepping up and my family they live in europe ... i truly i feel im sad and i need help how to tough up ?? |
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Hi Ezell,
the baby is going to be a great source of joy, right now you thinking all about the difficulties of raising a kid as a single mom but think all that the love for him it is going to be a great source of strength. Surround yourself with positive friend who will give you a little help and that will be a substitute family. |
| posted by Vero on 05/01/2012 |
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Listen mom to be. everyone is scared with their first baby. That is VERY normal. I was and I know almost everyone out there was as well. Kids bring what I like to call a completeness to your home. They help fill that motherly need that most moms have.
You will have someone to share you joys and hopes with. Baby really help when you are down because they will lighten up your day.
Not everyday will be fun. They are little and require your undivided attention. You will come to find your way through this. Seek out help and don't be afraid to ASK for it. When you stress just remember that this baby needs someone to understand.
There are lots of groups out there for new mothers and they will guide you. If you need any more support me feel free to email my group at ;
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| posted by Christine on 06/10/2012 |
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| I think you have begun to the first step in getting help by joining a support group for moms and families. Staying connected socially with others who have simliar experiences will help you through this situation. It is normal to be afraid with your first child. I was afraid and my hsbnad was involved with the pregnancy. So I can certainly understand the fear you have, but it will pass as you focus on the child and see yourself from each phase you complete of the pregnancy. So be positive because your baby feels everything you feel. Speak to your child now with postive words that indicate you love the child. You are not alone nor are you the first to encounter this situation. You can get through this and become a better person because of your experience. Allow your words, heart, motivation and mindset to pronounced you will get through this with a winning style. You are a lot stonger than you think. Sometimes the answer is in your positive perspective of a situation rather than the dwelling on the negatives of what you see, feel and think. |
| posted by Christie on 06/25/2012 |
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| So, you are officially a mother to your son and I am curious as to how you're doing? and anyways I wish I would have let go of my son's father prior to his birth. I thought a child of couldn't make someone a worse person. I I think that you are so smart to be seeking help. sometimes the help we get from strangers is better that from family. just love yourself as much as you love your son. I know it's had on the body but oh so good for the soul. |
| posted by Katherine on 08/24/2012 |
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| So, you are officially a mother to your son and I am curious as to how you're doing? and anyways I wish I would have let go of my son's father prior to his birth. I thought a child of couldn't make someone a worse person. I I think that you are so smart to be seeking help. sometimes the help we get from strangers is better that from family. just love yourself as much as you love your son. I know it's hard on the body but oh so good for the soul. Enjoy each stage, and try to just note what special thing haooens everyday on a calendar. |
| posted by Katherine on 08/24/2012 |
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| So, you are officially a mother to your son and I am curious as to how you're doing? and anyways I wish I would have let go of my son's father prior to his birth. I thought a child of couldn't make someone a worse person. I I think that you are so smart to be seeking help. sometimes the help we get from strangers is better that from family. just love yourself as much as you love your son. I know it's hard on the body but oh so good for the soul. Enjoy each stage, and try to just note what special thing haooens everyday on a calendar. |
| posted by Katherine on 08/24/2012 |
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| So, you are officially a mother to your son and I am curious as to how you're doing? and anyways I wish I would have let go of my son's father prior to his birth. I thought a child of couldn't make someone a worse person. I I think that you are so smart to be seeking help. sometimes the help we get from strangers is better that from family. just love yourself as much as you love your son. I know it's hard on the body but oh so good for the soul. Enjoy each stage, and try to just note what special thing haooens everyday on a calendar. |
| posted by Katherine on 08/24/2012 |
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| So, you are officially a mother to your son and I am curious as to how you're doing? and anyways I wish I would have let go of my son's father prior to his birth. I thought a child of couldn't make someone a worse person. I I think that you are so smart to be seeking help. sometimes the help we get from strangers is better that from family. just love yourself as much as you love your son. I know it's hard on the body but oh so good for the soul. Enjoy each stage, and try to just note what special thing haooens everyday on a calendar. |
| posted by Katherine on 08/24/2012 |
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