Emotional? -

Emotional?

Hi ladies,

How to u get over feeling angry towards someone......my Ex n I have been seperated for about two and some yr ago, since i was 7 months preg with my son......he went out on our relatesionship n we went through a lot of back in forth thgs.WE also did the court thg but am still felt to do everthgs(short end of the stick) with my two little ones..am still feeling anger towards him....a pray on it everday i tryed forgiveness but nothg real work for me.....how can i moved forward emotinally

Written by koolmom

Posted on 10/27/2011

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People tend to hold on to anger because in their heart they feel the offender isn't deserving of their forgiveness. The fact is that in many cases, they really aren't. The only problem is that your anger... or forgiveness....or indifference really wont effect the other person that much. Your ex has probably accepted your feelings at this point and moved on, accepting they wont change. It is you who has yet to move on. You are only punishing yourself at this point by holding onto anger. Do youself the favor and let it go. Just remind yourself that you are forgiving him for yourself, not for him. Take a little solice in knowing you were the bigger person and the one that really stepped up to the plate and there was nothing anyone could do to make you ex someone he wasn't. Give yourself a pat on the back for being a better person then him and move forward with your life without letting him effect your emotions anymore. It is what is best for you and you child. :o)

posted by Sheri on 11/25/2011

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