My mother in laws boyfriend told me that if i dont stop spanking my children that he will report me. my children are 2 and 3 years old. they fight constantly and spanking them is the only thing that works. but i hardly even touch them. i never spank them hard enough to leave a red mark and most of the time i just slap their hands and say no. of course i would never hurt my boys. they are my world. This guy is a real butt and i have no idea how to deal with him. we already had a restraining order against my brother in law. whom lives with my mil and her boyfriend. i have banned them from my home and they can never see my children. but these ppl are crazy. they will do anything in their power to get their way. i jus dont know what to do. i dont want my babies taken away. i live each and every day for them. they are my entire world. any advice would be appriciated