I am so frustrated. My husband and I have a child together. He has three children from previous relationships. There are four children, three different moms. I put out my hard earned money on trips to bring this family together. Three of the kids live 1 hour or more away from us. It's always a challenge to bring everyone together. Two of the kids have the same mother. It seems like they Unite together and attack the other two kids. Some of it may be jealousy of my son seeing their dad everyday. No matter what I do it does not seem to unite us a family. Somethimes I don't think they see each other as brothers. My son is two. To them it may seem like he gets alot. But, I buy everything he gets from toys to clothes. Christmas time I go all out for them but still they seem to pick on him. How much is a little teasing where I don't need to step him and stop it? It is really hard for the second to the youngest because for a while he was the youngest. He got all the attention. I am tired. I am frustrated. And I don't know what to do. Someone help pull the family together where they want to help each other and not jut deal with each other. Granted I know kids will joke with one another. |