I am 39 years-old and considering having a baby for my husband of 15 years. He has 3 college aged daughters (18-20) and I have one (22) all from previous relationships. I've always wanted to give him a child but I didn't want to struggle financially. So now that our children are grown and we have established our financies I want to share something of our own together. We travel the world and have a very healthy relationship but I often feel he longs for a child of his own. He has mentioned it over the years. I'm concerned that this will destroy everything we have worked so hard to build. We have freedom to travel, money, cars,beautiful home, and everyone envy the life we have. I'm just afraid everything will come tumbling down if we start over. I know no two situations are the same what has been your experience? P.S. Our friends think we are crazy!!