My 2 sons are almost 4 years apart to the day. My oldest son is almost 5 and the younger almost 10 months. The older son was used to being the only child so long that he's now acting out-  a lot -. At first it wasn't too bad because a newborn didn't require all that much time but now that he's on the move I'm constantly chasing after him and I think the older son is not getting enough attention. I've tried outings for just the 2 of us but nothing works. I need some ideas for dicipline, I've tried talking and explaing things, time outs, loss of favorite things, loss of tv time.... nothing works. I will be grateful for any suggestions.