I am a first time mom. My daughter is 3months old, she got colic when she was 2 months old. I stay home with her because my husband and I really don't want to send her to day care until she is at least one. We noticed a big change in her when I started to introduce her to formula, I couldn't produce enough for her to get full she was eating every 30min. She started to just cry all day long. I took her to her doctor and she said that there was nothing wrong that it had to be colic. I tired everything to soothe her nothing worked.One day I tried to rock her in my arms. It worked she stopped crying. Now that she is getting a little better I TRY not to do it as much. Every time I do in front of people they tell me how bad it is that I do it. They make me feel bad. My family told me the same thing but I told them it was the only think that worked and I also told them to back off. I am a VERY outspoken person. My husband's family tells me the same thing. I cant tell my husband's family to back off, because my husband will have a heart attack. I told my husband to say something then. He is a VERY passive person always has been. It really bugs me that they think they can talk to me like that. I feel like such a bad mommy. I really am trying to do my best. I really needed to vent. sorry for the long story ladies.