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in love

So i have a husband and i love him with all my heart he does the best he can with what he has he is not the best type of husband out there like most of you women have but i know he tries the thing is we are in two different houses because of money and im getting redy to get my place and i want him to come live with our daughter and myself but i might lose my family in the long run if i do because they think he is worthless and no good and a dead beat dad so i was wondering if you where in my shoes what would you do if you love someone so much

Written by Sabrina

Posted on 08/28/2009

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Put your baby first! is he going to be a good influance on her? Has he ever been abusive? if so then run like heck! If he is just a couch potato that is going to lie around and you are going to have to support the both of you and put the child in a daycare or sitter then move on with your life. Sometimes love is not enough! do not get deeper unless you are sure he will prove to be a good husband and father (and that does not meen letting you do all the work) and i think that the fact you are questioning it says it all.

posted by Sherry on 08/30/2009

Ask yourself what exactly it is you love about him and is it things that will make your family grow into a healthy enviroment. Sample. Does he try to grow emotionally in the relationship. What does he give to you physically emotionally. Does he support you as a mother. How does he treat others. Would he be a positive addition to the home.To feel "Love" is not enough the constant actions of "Love" are.

posted by Angela on 09/02/2009

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