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My sister in law has 3 weeks old baby ! she is let her cry an hour before she put her bed ! i told her just keep her awake an hour "she said if she cry an hour before go to bed night she will sleep good !

i dont think i agree with her ! she is too little to cry an hour isnt she ?

Written by Zula

Posted on 08/21/2009

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That is so cruel! She is too little to let cry it out.
Baby's cry because they need something. It is one of their only means of communication. Some parents worry that they will spoil their baby or create attachment issues if they attend to the baby every time he or she cries. Some parents also worry that their child is manipulating them. This just isn't possible. A young baby can not manipulate you! Rather if you pick your baby up when he or she is crying you are teaching him/her that you are there for them and that they can trust you to take care of them. Studies have shown that children that are given attention and love when crying or distressed are more likely to be independent children and young adults. This is because their basic needs of trust and comfort were developed early. These needs are the foundation of a strong and independent character. Therefore, don't let your baby cry! You are only teaching him/her that you will not be there when he/she needs you most

posted by Kimberly on 08/28/2009

That is so cruel! She is too little to let cry it out.
Baby's cry because they need something. It is one of their only means of communication. Some parents worry that they will spoil their baby or create attachment issues if they attend to the baby every time he or she cries. Some parents also worry that their child is manipulating them. This just isn't possible. A young baby can not manipulate you! Rather if you pick your baby up when he or she is crying you are teaching him/her that you are there for them and that they can trust you to take care of them. Studies have shown that children that are given attention and love when crying or distressed are more likely to be independent children and young adults. This is because their basic needs of trust and comfort were developed early. These needs are the foundation of a strong and independent character. Therefore, don't let your baby cry! You are only teaching him/her that you will not be there when he/she needs you most

posted by Kimberly on 08/28/2009

That is so cruel! She is too little to let cry it out.
Baby's cry because they need something. It is one of their only means of communication. Some parents worry that they will spoil their baby or create attachment issues if they attend to the baby every time he or she cries. Some parents also worry that their child is manipulating them. This just isn't possible. A young baby can not manipulate you! Rather if you pick your baby up when he or she is crying you are teaching him/her that you are there for them and that they can trust you to take care of them. Studies have shown that children that are given attention and love when crying or distressed are more likely to be independent children and young adults. This is because their basic needs of trust and comfort were developed early. These needs are the foundation of a strong and independent character. Therefore, don't let your baby cry! You are only teaching him/her that you will not be there when he/she needs you most

posted by Kimberly on 08/28/2009

That is so cruel! She is too little to let cry it out.
Baby's cry because they need something. It is one of their only means of communication. Some parents worry that they will spoil their baby or create attachment issues if they attend to the baby every time he or she cries. Some parents also worry that their child is manipulating them. This just isn't possible. A young baby can not manipulate you! Rather if you pick your baby up when he or she is crying you are teaching him/her that you are there for them and that they can trust you to take care of them. Studies have shown that children that are given attention and love when crying or distressed are more likely to be independent children and young adults. This is because their basic needs of trust and comfort were developed early. These needs are the foundation of a strong and independent character. Therefore, don't let your baby cry! You are only teaching him/her that you will not be there when he/she needs you most

posted by Kimberly on 08/28/2009

That is so cruel! She is too little to let cry it out.
Baby's cry because they need something. It is one of their only means of communication. Some parents worry that they will spoil their baby or create attachment issues if they attend to the baby every time he or she cries. Some parents also worry that their child is manipulating them. This just isn't possible. A young baby can not manipulate you! Rather if you pick your baby up when he or she is crying you are teaching him/her that you are there for them and that they can trust you to take care of them. Studies have shown that children that are given attention and love when crying or distressed are more likely to be independent children and young adults. This is because their basic needs of trust and comfort were developed early. These needs are the foundation of a strong and independent character. Therefore, don't let your baby cry! You are only teaching him/her that you will not be there when he/she needs you most

posted by Kimberly on 08/28/2009

That is so cruel! She is too little to let cry it out.
Baby's cry because they need something. It is one of their only means of communication. Some parents worry that they will spoil their baby or create attachment issues if they attend to the baby every time he or she cries. Some parents also worry that their child is manipulating them. This just isn't possible. A young baby can not manipulate you! Rather if you pick your baby up when he or she is crying you are teaching him/her that you are there for them and that they can trust you to take care of them. Studies have shown that children that are given attention and love when crying or distressed are more likely to be independent children and young adults. This is because their basic needs of trust and comfort were developed early. These needs are the foundation of a strong and independent character. Therefore, don't let your baby cry! You are only teaching him/her that you will not be there when he/she needs you most

posted by Kimberly on 08/28/2009

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