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adoptive parents

hello,am Florence and am 23 years old,am still a student at the university of Paris in FRANCE,i gave birth two months ago and am thinking on putting my baby up for adoption,but the problem is i don't know how to go about it and i don't want to go through the stress of an agency,i want something private ans simple,i don't want to make a whole show of it,so if you can give me some rightful advice or send me a private message,i will appreciate,thanks

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Written by florence

Posted on 07/03/2009

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why not find someone in the family that may want to adopt the baby then you will always be able to see the baby grow up it take a lot of courage to give up your baby..I adopted my granddaughter the mom struggled but she wanted a better life for Gracie she see her all the time and gracie is loved

posted by victoria on 07/06/2009

I know a woman that her mother arranged for a family friend several states from them to adopt her baby. The girl was 16 at the time. Apparently neither one wanted to raise the baby. They continued to have contact and visit the family and baby. This was agreed upon in the legal documents drawn up by the lawyer. The biological family has gotten to see the little girl grow up into a teenager now. And the adoptive mother got to have the baby she couldn't give birth to. Thank you and God bless you for not thinking about adoption.

posted by NANE2MOTHER on 07/12/2009

please contact your doc and see if maybe you're experiencing post pardom depression... a ton of women go through this. please consider that fist before moving forward with adoption and of it doesn't work then please go through an agency... you can pick the parents and it's totally free for you!!!

posted by Candice on 09/11/2009

I am an adoptive mother of three wonderful boys and it is a very amazing thing you are doing. From my experience you can contact social services in the area you live and they will guide you every step of the way. Private adoption or open either way you do get to choose the Adoptive PArents if you like. Also going to counceling might help with your decision. Either way you are amazing for having your options open.

posted by A on 09/29/2009

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