Our son Jack, six months old, is still swaddled for naps and night time.  We are afraid that if we let him continue to be swaddled he'll need to be swaddled until he's 8!

He takes a binky, but when he's not swaddled, he uses his free hands to knock it out of his mouth.

We can't really let him cry it out, cause he shares a room with his twin brother.

Help!