Okay I am extremley frustrated right now!!!! We have been trying to plan a non work vacation for a year now and it has yet to happen. Is seems impossible to plan anything with his uncertain schedule. We live in northern CA and I only want to go to Disneyland in L.A, it shouldn't be this hard. We were planning to go in December, which is in a few weeks so I asked today when he called and he got frustrated because he has shows but he's not exactly sure of the dates. I understand this but I am always in charge of planning everything we do EVER which I can't stand, but now I will only have a week or so to do it in. Does he not realize I have work too and I have to give my boss notice. It's just so frustrating. We never can plan any special things to do as a couple. The only time we have been away together is when I visit him on tour. I guess I am just having a bad day, he's on a three week tour and i'm sick so everything is upseting me. I need to vent to someone and no one I know could possibly understand this issue. Sometimes I get tired of being strong and understanding. I want to be a brat once in awhile, does anyone feel the same?