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toddler hates to get dressed

my son is 2.5 years old and we just had a baby 7 weeks ago. he has done AMAZING with her and besides the occasional asking to be held when shes being held, he hasn't shown any sign of regression or having a hard time with her...yet.

one thing that has changed, if EVERY time its time to get dressed, it is a huuuge battle. even if he knows that getting dressed means its time to go somewhere fun. he runs away. screams. when we finally get him and go to to put his pants on, he jumps up and down and spins around so we can't get them on him.

 

we've tried letting him pick out his own clothes, teaching him how to get himself dressed, telling him we won't go anyhwere (and we really stick to it too, just myself or my husband will end up running to the store instead of all of us) and he get upset, and will get dressed well while the other person is gone when we tell him we can go to the park later, but then does it all over again at bedtime when its time for PJs

 we aren't too into bribing kids, but we just didnt know what else to do. and even thats not working.

my son responds very well to just explaining things to him. he talks extremly well for his age and has a memory that freaks both myself and my husband out haha. this seems to be the only thing we havnt been able to talk through with him 

any suggestions? 

Written by Rebecca
Posted on 11/06/2008
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Maybe he can watch the baby get dressed, then the baby can watch him get dressed. Make it a fun game. raise the babies arm in the air like cheering and clapping. Pretend as if the baby is singing a song to brother....."brothers getting dreeeessed, YEAH!!!
posted by valarie on 11/09/2008
My son is now 30 months old and went through the very same thing and we tried all the same things you are doing. He eventually got over it! Occasionally he will still fight about it so I get his twin sister dressed and at the very last minute come back to him. If he still refuses, we walk toward the door and say we'll see ya later, bye-bye and low and behold he's ready to get dressed. Good luck, it's frustrating.
posted by sonya on 11/25/2008
I think it is just a phase because my 2 year old daughter is the same way. She doesn't like to put her coat on especially (and living in nebraska, it gets pretty cold lol). I am sure he will grow out of it and i'm sure my girl will grow out of it. i think it is a 2 year old thing.
posted by Katie on 11/26/2008
Must be a toddler thing. My son is 20 months old and acts thay way when it's time to change a dirty diaper. He's not ready for the potty yet but he wants to keep on dirty diapers! : ) I don't get it.

Maybe you could try letting him wear his clothes to bed or his pjs out in public once or twice...maybe a crazy idea will help.
posted by Anita on 11/26/2008
  
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