Are you married to a man in the military or a retired one....I am and I know how hard it is to raise a child pretty much by yourself! Our men are always giving 100% of themselves to what they do........Are you in that 100% or is it in his job? You love them but miss them? You give up a little of who you are to be a mommy and one hard nosed women for your hubby! Because we know men like that need women like us!