I love my girls dearly but sometimes I really don't like them.  My problem with them is that I feel like they should help out around the house because they do get to do pretty much what they want.  I get no help.  I ask for help and they say they will do it later and of course I do it or I end up fighting and yelling at them.  My oldest has quite the mouth on her and Cassidy my youngest has one almost as good as her sister.  Here is an example that I am dealing with.  They came home from their father's on Tuesday.  Both girls had been told that when they got back they would be cleaning the basement and their bedrooms.  Cassidy plays school in the basement and Paige has her room down there.  It is disgusting down there.  I feel like I shouldn't have to be the one to clean it. (I will help but not do it all) .  So last night when they got home Paige layed on the couch and went to sleep and Cassidy pretty much whined about everything.   I have told them they can not use the computer until stuff gets done around here.  I also have told Paige she could not go to her ballgame tonight.   Her response was "What the fuck, she will go somewhere else and go to her game and that I am retarted for grounding her from a game."  Both girls are acting as if they have no clue why I am mad.    Am I wrong for not letting her play her game?  What do I do to get some respect and help around here?