I can relate with you on finding this site.  I have stayed at home for 11yrs and all my boys are at school.  It gets kinda boring around here doing housework all the time.  I don't know anyone here who doesn't have a job.  I wish I could find a group of mom's that I can connect with in Houghton Lake.  My church has athome mom's with homeschoolers which puts me way out of their ball-park.    The one thing I learned by being at home is I am very important to my boys and am proud to have a great relationship with them.  Staying focused on my tasks takes a lot of work because I have ADD and am never organized with my thoughts.  I write down my chores for the day and get extremely discouraged when I don't complete them.  You might say I am a recoverying procrastinator.