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| Everything is going wrong right now! First, before I left work on Tuesday, HR pulled BD and me in to two separate rooms and told us that they have heard rumors regarding our relationship and asked for us to confirm or deny it. I confirmed it because I thought it was better to tell the truth because they had so much evidence in front of them. He however denied it in part, he said we are just friends and that he has been hanging around at the doctor appointment for support which is in part truth. But now he is worried about losing his job, I was in the meanwhile transferred to a new department and I think (or hope) that is all that is going to happen at this point.
Now, he is giving me the cold shoulder because I had a moment of weakness and cracked. I tried to get him to understand that people would have known sooner than later and that they would have continued to dig until they found what they wanted. But of course this whole thing is my fault so now I’m on the verge of being single and pregnant again!
To make matters worse, I had to make another emergency appointment this morning at 8:15am, basically to go over the ultrasound results from Tuesday. Well I go in the office, sign in, sit and wait, then 20 minutes later get told I’m in the wrong office…apparently they made the appointment for the wrong office. So at this point If I went to the right office, which is 30 minutes away from this office then an additional 20 minute drive back to work, I would be nearly an two hours late for work. So they say they will just have the file faxed to that office and that would be it. Well 20 minutes later I get to go back and they do the normal stuff. Weight, BP, urine stick…and I think that all that is next is to meet with the doctor and I’d only be an hour and a few minutes late for work at that point. Well then the nurse wanted me to fill out the history of the previous pregnancies, which they should have on file already because I went through their office for DD. So fine I fill out the 5 page med history forms and now it is 9:00 and I’m an hour late for work and haven’t even seen the doctor yet. Nurse comes back in and tells me the doctor is going to do a full initial exam. (I’ve already had 3 exams since I found out I was pregnant 2 weeks ago! ) So I said that I don’t think it’s necessary, I was only here to talk with the doctor about the ultrasound. And she then goes and talks to the DR and he says no he wants a full physical exam. I roll my eyes take the gown and the sheet and the nurse leaves so I get undressed, well not one minute later she knocks on the door, I am still full blown naked at this point and about to put the gown on, just a minute, and she walked in anyway saying I forgot to give this to you! I yelled at her told her that when someone says one minute they mean to wait to come in. She gave me a snotty apology and left another medical form that I needed to fill out that she forgot about. I get the gown on and drape the sheet over my legs and sit on the table and fill out this new form. 15 minutes later still no doctor I am now an hour and a half late for work. I contemplated walking out and then got dressed and walked out. Told them I would be taking this pregnancy to a different practice and would have them send my records to the doctor that I chose. I get to work two hours late after thinking I would only be 45 minutes late at the most. I am so hormonally upset that I think I am making everything bigger than it is and I just have to keep telling myself to calm down because I can work like this! |
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