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 I had my day in court on 9-17-07, The judge decided not to do everything in trial mode because he believed he could come to an agreement with our lawyers instead. So he brought our lawyers into his chambers while i had to sit out in the lobby watching Jason and his fiance holding each others hands, her rubbing his arm with her head on his sholder...come on people it's a court room for crying out loud! anyway back on track... the judgement was that he gets the one overnight that I agreed to give him and then in December he gets her 2 overnights. Which in all honesty that was the schedule I was hoping for. Although I hate to send her off and be away from her, I know that Jason will do a good job taking care of her and I strongly feel that now she is old enough to be away from me for a little bit. She is over her separation anxiety and has become so independant. The only thing that I'm worried about is the fact that she sleeps in the same room as me so when she wakes up in the middle of the night she can see that i'm right there, but she has her own room at Jason's and it's on the first floor, Jason's bedroom is on the second floor, so not only is she going to wake up alone tonight, but she is going to have to wait for a while before he hears her crying and gets to her...
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I am working on letting go, but I've spent most of the day looking at pictures of her and getting worried about everything from what is he going to feed her to if he has her favorite toys. I tried to give him the glowworm, but he says he can go buy his own...
please pray for the both of us to make sure this is a smooth transition and that it just gets easier with time. |
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| ifhte sleep thing bothers you, which it would me too, suggest some baby monitors so he hears her right away. im proud of you for dealing with it good. there will always be things that you dont like or you thing he is doing wrong, thats with any parents together or seperate. you just have to learn to communicate with him for her sake. good luck and thanks for the update. |
| posted by Devon on 09/17/2007 |
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| I'm sure your ex will do a good job. But I pray for you and your daughter. |
| posted by Chelle on 09/17/2007 |
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