Do husbands ever change? -

Do husbands ever change?

My husband has to work long shifts sometimes, and the times are always different. I put our son Mikey on a schuedule so that when James comes home he would always know what part of the day we are in. But he doesnt even seem to care, he works Mikey up right before bed but then doesnt want to deal with it when he cries at bedtime, or he forgets to feed him and then gets upset at me cause the baby is crying. I did the schuedule just for him and he doesnt seem to care at all. I just get so frustrated with him sometimes. He is also always telling me how busy and hard his days at work are, but he always down plays my days when I try to tell him I had a rough one. Its like he thinks being a stay at home mom, keeping our apartment spotless, cooking dinner, taking care of the whole families schuedules, and trying to find time to get a shower and brush my teeth isnt hard too. When he is home he just want to relax from a busy day and play with baby. So I dont get any help from him then. When I try to explain all of this he just appologizes and gives me a kiss and it gets better for that day and then he goes back to the same old same old the next day! I love him so much I just wish he listened better and really tried to understand. Well thanks for letting me vent a little!

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Posted on 06/26/2007

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